Desire + Belief = Reality (true story inside)


Hey there, conscious creator!

Ever notice how the moment you say you want something more… life tests you?

It throws resistance at your feet.
Doubt in your mind.
Delay on your path.

But when it does, the real question isn't "Why is this happening?" It's "Who do I need to become?"

You see, when life pushes back, most people take that as a sign to back off.

But those who keep going and hold steady in their belief?
They’re the ones reality eventually moves for.

This week, I offer you something different, a true story about a boy born without ears—and a father who refused to accept what he was told. And the moment the force of desire and belief did what science said was impossible.

But it’s not just a story about somebody else. It’s about you. Me. And all of us.

And the version living inside each of us that reality won’t be able to deny.


He Was Born Without Ears. What His Father Did Next Reveals What It Truly Takes To Change Your Reality

Napoleon Hill is one of the pioneers of manifestation.

Decades before he published the world-famous book Think and Grow Rich, he manifested something far more personal — and far more miraculous.

On November 11, 1912, his son was born without ears.

He was not just deaf but had no physical openings. No inner ear. No sign that hearing was even possible.

Doctors told Hill there was no hope — that his son, Blair, would never hear or speak, and would be a mute for life.

But Hill refused to believe them.

He didn’t argue. He didn’t fight. He simply chose not to accept the reality in front of him.

Every day, he sat by Blair’s side and spoke to him, speaking into his ears, despite the absence of any apparent response.

Not because he was in denial.

But because he believed something deeper was at play. That desire could open doors biology had closed. That belief could move what science had declared immovable.

And so he kept speaking — into the silence, into the void — until one day, something impossible happened:

Blair turned his head and responded to his father’s voice.

He heard him.

That moment didn’t just reshape a child’s future. It revealed one of the most powerful truths about conscious creation:

Desire + Belief = Reality

Hill didn’t just write about manifestation.

He lived it.


What You Refuse to Accept Can Reshape Reality

Napoleon Hill didn’t just hope his son would hear someday. He believed it with every fiber of his being. And that belief, paired with unwavering desire, reshaped what was medically deemed impossible.

That’s the part most people overlook when they talk about manifestation.

It’s not about wishing. It’s not about scripting, or mood boards, or staying “high vibe.” It’s about holding a desire so clearly — and believing in its possibility so deeply — that you don’t let your current reality dictate your future one.

Most people never manifest what they desire because they don’t really want what they claim to want. Likely because they don’t truly know what they want. Or they quietly carry disbelief while trying to move toward their desire. And the energy of that disbelief keeps their reality stuck.

I’ve seen this firsthand in my own life.

In 2022, I detached my retina in my right eye. I’ve seen some of the best retina specialists in the country — and they’ve all told me the same thing: “Your vision won’t come back. It’s irreversible.”

But I refuse to believe that.

Not because I am denying the reality of the situation. But out of knowing how much belief shapes biology. And I know the worst thing I could do is adopt their story as truth. Because once you adopt a story, your nervous system rehearses it. And what your nervous system rehearses, your reality reflects.

Desire is what opens the door to possibilities.
Belief is what walks you through it.

Let’s break those down.


The Power of Desire

Desire is misunderstood.

We’re taught to tone it down, suppress it, or chase desires that were handed to us — status, safety, approval. But the kind of desire that reshapes reality?

It burns.

It’s not frantic or impulsive. It’s steady. Soul-rooted.

It doesn’t apologize. It doesn’t flip-flop. Instead, it sharpens over time.

That’s the kind of desire Hill carried. And most people never access that level of clarity— because they confuse true desire with what spiritual teacher Michael Beckwith calls “immature wanting.” In his Life Visioning program, Beckwith defined these wants as desires that come from the outside: what culture tells you to want, what your parents hoped for, what social media rewards. These desires are rooted in approval, not authenticity.

Years ago, when I was completing the Silva Ultramind training, the program’s trainer, Vishen Lakhiani, made a similar distinction. He warned against trying to manifest “means goals” — like money, job titles, or followers — without identifying the end goal underneath: freedom, creativity, peace, or love.

He calls the invisible force behind these borrowed desires the culturescape — the web of societal expectations that shape our goals without our awareness.

So when you say you want something, pause and ask yourself:

  • “Is this coming from within me — or was it planted there?”
  • “What do I actually want underneath this?”

Because desire only becomes powerful when it’s clear.

And clarity comes from asking why — again and again — until your longing is no longer a performance, but a truth that lives in your bones.


Desire + Belief Are One Energetic Loop

So here’s the thing about desire and belief: they go hand in hand.

Without belief, desire is just fantasy. Without desire, belief is just theory. But when the two move together, they form the current that bends reality.

Think about all the times you’ve wanted something with your whole being, some part of you believed it was possible. Maybe not consciously. Maybe not fully. But there was a thread of knowing beneath the surface.

That thread is what kept the desire alive.

If you didn’t believe you could have it, the desire probably faded. Because desire without belief can’t sustain itself. And belief without desire has nowhere to go.

Desire sparks the vision.
Belief charges it with momentum.

Desire imagines a new future.
Belief builds the bridge to it, even when that future seems impossible.

This is the core of conscious creation.
The engine of all manifestation.

And it can’t be faked.

You can’t just say you believe while holding doubt under your breath. Your nervous system knows the difference. And your reality will reflect it.

This is why most manifestation techniques fall flat.

They give you the outer rituals — but ignore the inner electricity: Visualize this, affirm that. Balance this chakra, clear that energetic block.

But none of it matters without the full energetic loop of desire + belief running through your body.

You have to want it like your soul is speaking.

You have to believe it like it’s already underway.

So get clear on your desire. Feed the belief that it’s possible. Let both live not just in your mind, but fully in your body.

That’s what Hill did.
That’s what I am doing to heal my vision.
And that’s what you must do.
Not once. But daily. Until it becomes who you are.

Because when your nervous system rehearses belief, and your spirit holds desire steady, you’re leaving reality no other choice but to start to respond.

Go for it. You got this. ✌🏻


Now it’s your turn.

What future are you still willing to hold, despite what you’ve been told?

Share it in the comments of this post on Instagram.

And tell me what this story stirred in you.

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And if you’re ready to stop backing down when life pushes back—and start embodying the version of you that reality can no longer ignore…

Explore my Identity Shifting Morning Practice— a 10-day course to rehearse the beliefs, emotions, and actions of the version of you that’s already living your desired reality.


With gratitude. 🙏🏻

As always, remember:

You are a Conscious Creator of your reality!
Keep creating your best self!

avl

Anthony V. Lombardo

The Identity Shifting Morning Practice

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